The Gilded Mesh

How does the buckle of The Gilded Mesh adjust?

Like a watch strap: the buckle slides along the mesh band, so it adjusts from 16.5 to 21 cm (about 6.5 to 8.3 in).

What is the difference with the Shadowed Cross?

Both have a mesh band and a 41 x 10 mm plate. The Gilded Mesh mixes gold-tone and black accents and adjusts from 16.5 cm; the Shadowed Cross adjusts from 17 to 21 cm.

How big is the plate?

41 x 10 mm, long and narrow like a watch face seen from the side.

How do the cross and the black plate of The Gilded Mesh look together?

A gold or silver cross on a black 41 x 10 mm plate gives a strong contrast. It lets a man's faith show without words.

Is the gold color actual gold?

No. It is stainless steel with gold-tone and black accents, which does not rust or turn your skin green.

How do I get soap out of the steel mesh of The Gilded Mesh?

Rinse the band under clean water, pat it dry with a towel and wipe it with the microfiber cloth. The stainless steel does not rust, so water itself is not a problem.

The cravings hit me hardest in the afternoon at work. I've got eight months. Is there anything to do with faith that's quick, in the moment, that doesn't involve leaving my desk?

Mid-afternoon at a desk at eight months is exactly when the mind starts telling you stories. Quick is right, because the craving usually crests and passes. Tell your sponsor about the afternoons so it doesn't stay secret, then build a reflex you can use anywhere. The Gilded Mesh is a bracelet with a cross at the center of a strap-like band. You glance at your wrist a hundred times a day, and each time can be a moment to turn back to God. Look at it, breathe out, say: Just this hour, Lord. Then drink some water and stand up. One day at a time, and on some days, one afternoon.